While some people think of it as foreplay, oral sex can be and is just another form of sex all on its own. For many straight guys, it is the hottest type of sex play that they fantasize about most. For many girls, it is one of the most efficient ways to obtain orgasm, given that 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to come. So, if you haven’t tried oral sex yet, you may be missing out on a lot of great sex! If you have, but aren’t very confident yet, here are some hot tips to get you started. Even if you’re a pro, you can always perfect your technique!
The 3 E's of oral sex include Enthusiasm, Eye Contact and
Enthusiasm: This is the number 1 important factor when giving a BJ or oral sex. You have to be "IN" to it! If you are not "in" to it, it doesn't matter how good your techniques are, as the act itself will fall flat. Which also goes the other way, you can be a complete novice at oral sex, but as long as you are enthusiastic and show your lover how much you enjoy getting them off, it will go much further in the "turn on" department.
Eye Contact: You’ve probably heard this before, but making eye contact while giving head is a major turn on for guys. Again, this has to do with the enjoyment factor, especially if you are giving him naughty, sultry looks. But, it also helps you connect with your lover as well, which is super important in watching their body language and reaction as well as getting more intimate with them.
Emotion: Again, showing emotion or "emoting" goes along with being enthusiastic. While you may not want to act or sound like a porn star and use fake "ooohs" and "aaahs", being vocal "mmm you taste so good," throughout the oral experience is a turn on. That is not to say you want to chatter continuously, because that can be a BIG turn off, but giving feedback to your partner and letting them know you are enjoying the experience is hot.
The 3 E's of oral sex can enhance any type of sex or intimate experience actually. And, it is also up to both partners to respond in kind. If you are both equally enthusiastic, giving each other eye contact and emoting (or giving feedback), your sex life will sizzle with excitement.
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